Heavy Heart

***Sunday, Dec . 13, 2020 ***

My friend cannot find suitable housing. Actually, she cannot find any housing at all. Normally, this might not be the worst thing - one could move off island or stay in a motel temporarily. Something.

But in her situation - she is extremely ill with a long term chronic disease, is bedbound, has severe allergies and chemical sensitivities, cannot read or use the computer due to extreme light sensitivity, her hands are virtually useless due to inflammation of the joints and pain so she cannot write either. It goes without saying she cannot drive anywhere since she can only sit up for brief periods of time.

She has applied for Medical Assistance in Dying, even though she was hoping to get healthier thru some alternative medical support. (Western medicine has only helped minimally.) Now it looks as though dying will be her only answer. Nowhere to live vs. death? What kind of a choice is that?




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