I WISH SOMEONE WOULD ASK ME

 2017


I WISH SOMEONE WOULD ASK ME:




I don’t know. I don’t seem to have an answer to this question. Or rather, to have a question.




When I am alone, I often feel very alone - as in alone in the world. Maybe then I would like someone to ask me to be their friend.




I think I can be a very good friend - willing and able to listen, knowing how to have fun and laugh, interested in many things in the world.




I would also like someone to ask me “What else?” 

What else is going on with you, meaning me? What’s underneath all that you’re saying or not saying? 

What makes you tick? 

How do you see the world? 

What gets you excited or awestruck or lifted up for despairing? 

Who'd do you love? 

What do you love?

Is there something I wishes people would see in me? 

My depth, perhaps. I am often smiling, making jokes, keeping it light. I don’t want be a drag and bring you down if I am feeling a heaviness, some sorrow or anger. And yet, I am fine if you express those things.

I wonder why I have more compassion for you that way than I seem to have for myself. I wish I could be a better friend to me


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